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Adventures in Autism

  • A Hulking Start

    August 29th, 2022

    You know how normal roller coasters go over the top, and then you know when you’re going to fall? Well on The Incredible Hulk Coaster you don’t know when you are going to get launched because it happens so fast. You can thank the engineers for having you stay on the track.

    Anyways, I have never been on a roller coaster before. I was extremely terrified of heights before I went on the Hulk coaster. I was afraid to go on the Hulk coaster because I could see the top of it from the bottom floor of the hotel, Loews Sapphire Falls. But my head and body said “Can I go on the Hulk Coaster” before my mouth could reject.

    If I could rate the Hulk Coaster in stars, I would say 3.75 stars for newcomers because of the unexpected launch. For more experienced riders I would give 4.85 stars because it ends sort of quickly, but the experience is great.

  • Meet Dex

    August 27th, 2022
    Dex writing his “About Me”.

    Hello, I’m Dex. My pronouns are He/Him, and I have Autism. I love to write, draw, and play TTRPGs. Most importantly I love to be myself. If you think being the average person is good, well you’re wrong. Average is boring. If you’re the average person, you will never be able to experience uniqueness.

    People judge Autism & Down Syndrome badly, and well, they’re more wrong than the largest amount of wrongness. Even though I don’t have Down Syndrome, I have seen many people with it, and it’s good, not bad. It makes you unique, Autism is the same way. – I hope you find our blog helpful! Dex

  • Autism Travel TIPS (what we learned) Universal Studios / Islands of Adventure Orlando

    August 25th, 2022

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    For us to take a family vacation to any big park like Disney or Universal was never on our radar as even a possibility. So when my 11-year-old autistic son expressed an interest in going to Universal Studios, we took it very seriously. He knew from conversations with others that it would be hot, crowded, loud, and filled with roller coasters and lines. All of which could set him into a meltdown faster than you can say Hogwarts! Nonetheless, we discussed it as a family and began to plan.

    Our travel agent told us about the Attraction Assistance Pass which would allow all of us to utilize the express pass line at set times. This is huge because Dex and waiting don’t mix.

    We planned to stay on the property at Lowes Sapphire Falls so that it would be easy to hop on a water taxi and come back and forth if we needed to take a break from the park. We also decided to do the 2 parks 3-day pass with 2 free days so that we can visit in short increments without feeling rushed or compelled to “get our money’s worth”.

    Additionally, I went to Pinterest to find other bloggers who gave tips on navigating the park(s), the best places to eat, and ways to save money. What I could not find initially was first-hand information on navigating the park with an autistic child. *Since my first publishing I have discovered Autism at the Parks – it’s worth checking out!

    So here I want to share some of my experiences with you and lessons learned. I must acknowledge that I know Autism presents differently in every person. My Dex is a bright, Minecraft and Lego-loving, sociable, empathetic kiddo. His “big feelings” presents from happy and calm to presenting to being chased by a Jurassic park dinosaur in an instant. It’s not always easy to catch but there usually are warning signs. His meltdowns can include mind-numbing screams, elopement, crying, gritting teeth, throwing objects, hiding, or just blatant defiance. These daily swings have led to his older brother, our pets, and sadly other school mates, to walk on egg shells. Additionally, my husband and I have developed a bit of hyper-vigilance. I thank god he is such loving kiddo so that most others can see the amazing in him and move past his scary meltdowns.


    Tips


    Tip #1 Obtain Known Traveler Number

    If possible register in advance for a Known Traveler Number. This will allow you and your kiddos to coast through security with a TSA Precheck status to avoid long lines and the removal of shoes, belts, and coats (usually). It’s worth it and lasts for several years.

    Tip #2 Flight

    LET THEM SLEEP IN – take a late morning or early afternoon flight. Ask the airline gate attendant for pre-boarding to avoid the line and crowds getting on the plane. If flying Southwest this will also ensure you can sit together on the plane. Bring ear plugs, water, a light blanket, a book, IPad, or other activity to keep you child busy.

    Tip #3 Arrive at 4:00 pm

    Plan to arrive at the hotel around 4:00 pm. Most resorts don’t allow you to check in before 4:00. We were unaware of this fact and had to sit around waiting for our room to be ready. This was stressful and was a Tick in the ole’ meltdown countdown.

    Tip #5 Just Relax on Arrival Day

    Use arrival day as a day to unpack, get to know the resort, and maybe use the pool. Use Instacart to order some groceries and snacks to keep on hand. Use this time to PLAN your first day at the park. I cannot stress enough how important this part is. Dex was so excited the day we arrived and wanted to see Harry Potter so badly that we decided to go to the park and just wing it a bit. This was a terrible idea. We were NOT prepared to deal with anything the 2 hours there threw at us. It was a disaster.

    Tip #6 Pick Up Tickets at Your Resort

    If staying at a Universal Resort chances are you can collect or buy tickets there. This will alleviate another line to stand in at Will-Call. While you are at it, get a couple of lanyards to hold them in. I recommend bringing 2 in case you split up! Depending where you stay you may have early entry for certain attractions like Harry Potters Wizarding World.

    Tip #7 Get an Attraction Assistance Pass

    After you have collected your park tickets stroll over to guest services and ask for an Attraction Assistance Pass. Unlike Disney this pass can only be obtained on site. This pass allows you to make a “reservation” in person with a return time. When it is time to return you hop into the express lane. There is no fee for this accommodation. Obtaining this pass was a fairly easy process. I explained that Dex had Autism and we heard from our travel agent that we can have a line accommodation. They asked what would happen if he had to stand in line and I simply said “meltdown”. This is the truth, and this pass has been a lifesaver. I recommend carrying a pen on you because the “reservations” need to be made at the attraction entrance by an employee. When you return they need to sign off on your pass as well.

    Attraction Assistance Pass

    Tip #8 Use your Concierge

    Ask your concierge for the water taxi and shuttle bus contact information. On our first day after walking for miles in the heat without a plan, we decided to head back to the water taxi. It wasn’t until we got to the dock that we learned that the taxis were temporarily shut down due to lightning risk. We then had to walk another 15 minutes up a hill and many stairs to grab a shuttle. This area was confusing as well. The shuttle to our hotel was MIA so another hotel took pity and absorbed several of us into their route. In inclement weather call the concierge to see if the water taxi is running before trekking over to the dock. This most definitely was a few more ticks on the meltdown countdown. Make a plan on what you will do in case this happens so the unexpected change isn’t so destructive. Also, I was told by the water taxi folks that in inclement weather you can ask any security guards in the park if a “10-13 White” has been issued.

    Tip #9 Confirm Early Entry Location

    Before you head out of your hotel inquire about which park (Universal or Islands of Adventure) will be hosting the early park ENTRY if you are trying to take advantage of this resort perk. Believe it or not, it’s a bit of a walk from the entry to Universal Orlando to the entry gates to Island of Adventure and the whole point is to be there early, not waste time walking in the wrong direction. Tick…

    Tip #10 Split Up

    If visiting with multiple kids, it may be advantageous to split up at times. Our oldest son gets very frustrated when his brother melts down in public because it impacts his day too. A respite from meltdowns is good for the soul. My husband and I agreed to split up and each takes a kiddo on multiple occasions. In this way when Dex wanted to head back to the hotel and his older brother didn’t, or vice versa it wasn’t an issue, they each got what they wanted. On many occasions, we’ve left events, parties, or visits early for Dex, and we’ve seen the impact it does have on Liam emotionally. I recall a hiking trip we took and at every new climb, Dex screamed and cried. His brother just hiked ahead and didn’t talk most of the day. It wasn’t fun for him. Liam is at the stage where he’s mad and resentful for these “disruptions”; he doesn’t fully grasp Dex’s Autism yet. He will eventually 💙.

    Tip #11 Make a Plan

    Planning which rides and/or attractions on particular days and times, even the route you will take to get there (with some built-in flexibility) will set expectations for the day. By the third day I started using Google maps to plan my routes within the park. Step by step directions; yes please!

    *Download this Guide for Guests with Cognitive Disabilities to assist in your planning by Universal Orlando Resort.

    Walking aimlessly without a plan on that first day to the park was a disaster! We essentially ended up doing nothing but walking and getting frustrated. Dex does best when he knows what to expect. For example: In the AM one day we took advantage of early entry to The Wizarding World of Harry Potter, we knew that Harry Potter and the Forbidden Journey 4D ride was popular so we planned to beeline over to it and ride it first, second we planned Butterbeer, and then another ride while in Hogsmeade. All of that was a success! We then were planning on taking the train over to Diagon Alley to ride Harry Potter and the Escape From Gringotts. But My oldest son spotted the menu at the Three Broomsticks and since this wasn’t in our original plan Dex had a meltdown in line, screaming at the table, and an argument between Dex and his brother, resulting in him and I abandoning the remainder of the morning schedule. We should have seen that coming, we knew better. In retrospect, Dex and I should have split from my husband and Liam to continue with the plan. Lesson learned. By the way, the breakfast itself was super yummy. We had the traditional English breakfast and the pancake breakfast. Portions were big and were shareable.

    Woman and son sitting on a bench of a water taxi. Looking over shoulders smiling at the camera.
    Water Taxi! Dex asked to ride the Incredible Hulk Coaster! I was so proud of him. I got nauseas, he loved it but wanted to go back to our hotel afterwards. He needed to process, I respect that. Me too Dex, me too.
    In line at the Three Broomsticks. Dex was showing signs of elevation in this photo. Liam is grinning from ear to ear in anticipation of the yummy goodness he was about to consume!

    TIP #12 Download the Universal Orlando Resort App

    For us, we found the Universal Orlando Resort App to be helpful for current attraction wait times, closures, and descriptions; dining options, menus, and contact information for reservations. It has features for scanning in tickets and passes but we found this to be clunky and glitchy. Additionally, the App needs to be updated because Universal no longer has dining plan options and this is still included in the app. I would have LOVED for it to have a more robust step-by-step direction feature like google maps built-in, for my family, this would have been extremely helpful.

    Tip #13 Consider a Personal Tracker

    Elopement, wandering off, abduction, or separation by large crowds is always a concern in my mind. We were trying to get my son’s Verizon GizmoWatch reconnected but the model we had was too old for the updated software and we could not get a new one in time. Booooo! I love this basic smartwatch because it has a GPS app built in that you can track on an app; automatic call answering if they don’t pick up; texting and phone calling to a limited number of pre-approved persons. In case of separation, it could lead you right to them. The plus for me is the relatively low cost. Additionally, here is another review by Safewise on the Verizon GizmoWatch❤️ We also looked at the AngelSense Tracker. This can be put into one of their watch bands, armbands, or clipped into clothing. It is very cool and worth checking out! In the end, we didn’t need a tracker because Dex was always wanting to stay close and hold our hands. This was a nice treat for the hubs and me, so we soaked it up! 💙❤️

    Tip #14 Don’t Forget to Appreciate the Little Things

    Sometimes it’s the unplanned family moments that bring the most joy. Pool time was where we had some of the best smiles and family time.

    Hallway while in line for the Amazing Adventures In Spider-Man 4D Ride. It’s loud in this building, I should have grabbed the ear plugs.
    Hubs and Liam
    in line for the Amazing Adventures in Spider-Man . We were thankful for the air conditioning and fun distractions while waiting to experience this cool ride.
    Success!

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  • Hello World!

    August 25th, 2022

    Navigating the world of parenting a child with Autism can be the most incredible journey in all ways. Here you’ll experience our stories from multiple perspectives (parent and child). My son Dex loves to write; this will be a great outlet for him to express his perspective! For me, this will help me reflect, process and help others in this amazing life. Love to All.

    Introducing my son Dex ❤️

    Hello, I’m Dex. My pronouns are He/Him, and I have Autism. I love to write, draw, and play TTRPGs. Most importantly I love to be myself. If you think being the average person is good, well you’re wrong. Average is boring. If you’re the average person, you will never be able to experience uniqueness.

    People judge Autism & Down Syndrome badly, and well, they’re more wrong than the largest amount of wrongness. Even though I don’t have Down Syndrome, I have seen many people with it, and it’s good, not bad. It makes you unique, Autism is the same way. – I hope you find this blog helpful! Dex

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